Bamboo In The Wind

Some succeed and some do not. Results achieved are a reflection of a Will demonstrated, Perseverence showcased and most critically Decisions made. Any time there is result, there is strong demonstration of these three key aspects of behaviours strengths. Will - is a reflection of desire to achieve Perseverence - is a reflection of efforts taken Decisions - is a reflection of a thought process of choosing options available And the Result - is an end artifact - an amalgamation of all of above.

Through some knocks I have taken in the past, over time, I have learned to distinguish between types of questions based on "impact" answers will create. Is it an information question? Quick answer is possible. Impact to "others" may be minimal. Is it a decision making question? Quick answer is possible. Impact to "others" may be significant. Is it an opinion question? Quick turn-around is ok. Impact to “others” may depend on how the sample size polled responds. Is it a problem solving question? Instant response is possible. But well researched follow-up may be better, for, impact to “others” may be more immediate and significant. How question get answered depends on “How” a question is asked and the “Trust” contract between person who asked and person who answers. Commitment in the answer will depend on level of “Engagement” that already exists between persons involved. Similar relationship may develop when there is a person “Inte...