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Encouragement provides a huge leap

When we are in a tight spot, we tend to need some morale boosters. Sort of a reassurance that says things will work out if we just do what we are doing. 

Reassurance implies we just need to keep our march because it takes us to the destination we are looking to go. It's often just hoping and with no basis.

Reassurance means someone has to soothe us despite our feeble attempt. Reassurance is thus futile and offers no push for creating alternatives.

Encouragement means that someone sees us doing what we want. It may not be the right path but it is a sincere exploration, and experiment that provides a basis for whether that is the right path. We are more educated due to such exploration and encouragement comes from someone who noticed us in your journey.

Encouragement does not say we are guaranteed to see success. It tells your attempt is a good one, sincere and it will let you discover your path with alternatives hence it's vital for your eventual self-fulfillment and fuels self-belief.

The key is to put our efforts, exploration, and work out there for others to see and let someone notice something worthwhile and make suggestions.

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