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The returns are outside the herd!

A lot of what we do is a desire that generates from what happens in our surroundings. We get pushed into being part of the game that others have started. Nothing wrong with it. They pay off and provide grounds for an excellent experience.

The problem starts when such adopted desires begin to collide with your own. There comes a time in your life, career, or profession where you sense that you are dragging your feet just where you felt it was the most suitable place to be; beneficial and progressive. 

Usually, that is the time you have begun noticing your own core desires. Such desires stem from your core beliefs and have the potential to represent your true self.

There are two ways to benefit from it. You apply your core beliefs at the place where you have had an enjoyable ride so far. Hopefully, you are at a juncture where your contributions thus far offer you the flexibility to pursue your desire. Usually, the outcome is growth in enriching experience and empowerment.

But often, when you are in a herd, things do not go as you want. What you really are seeking there is social recognition. To fit in and be like most others. Your learning and experience journey is like those you are with you.

Great returns are outside the herd. Outside, you are on your own. Returns are your own!

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