There are instances where you constantly grapple with the nature of decisions made. You feel unhappy about having made them. On the surface, everything you decide on will yield a good outcome. You desire that there was something more to be done.
That is a sign of not making the decision that resonates with you. While making decisions, you often think about the decision's impact as it would be considered from others' perspectives. While in usual times it makes a lot of sense, it is usually not kind to you.
You waste so much energy to please others and do everything to keep others happy. You have to ignore self-interest and do what makes you feel unsettled.
This is the worst form of decision-making. Where, despite being in command, you end up making yourself miserable.
Healthy decisions watch self-interest and those of others. They are the ones where you are prepared to know that you may only make some people happy. But you must feel good about those yourself. Whole-heartedly. With no regrets at the expense of others...
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