It is such a great thing to have. Expressing the actual state of mind is impossible when the pathways are choked.
Are pathways choked by default? Never.
First and foremost, pathways get choked in our own minds. Then the surrounding environment interprets our state and decides whether to shut our entry into the path they are standing on.
Discerning both scenarios and negotiating them takes skill.
Acknowledging blockades in our own minds takes introspecting. If we embark on it, we might be surprised by what we discover about ourselves.
Negotiating situations with introspection is a powerful way to put the onus of work back on ourselves.
It is hard to gulp to accept that others see us as a nuisance on their pathways and not in real danger or need.
We feel emptied of all our privileges to ask for help, like when we are in the dust after a fight.
It takes immense guts to realize these sentiments.
Showing the guts to see things as they are is a tremendously effective way to begin forging lasting bonds instead of taking them for granted!
Grappling with self is possible when we find a quiet corner to express ourselves!
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